Thursday, October 24, 2013

Part 2 Post-Wedding Update from Summer 2013

Part 2.0 ::: Slating / Ruff Flamingo poetry / Trumbullplex Yardsale
by jhon

Backing up a bit let's take a closer look at the beginning of July...

Big plans were already in the works, as always. I was running out of slates, copper nails and areas I could get to without scaffolding on my job, so I decided to wrap it up, in the nick of time, just before the H. Ruff Flamingo event. “The what you say?” Well, “The Flamingo” is the abandoned garage next to our house I comandeered, cleaned up and redecorated (with lots of help) for a bar at the wedding. Having spent so much energy on it and it just sitting; we really had wanted to do something fun in there.

It was just about set to host a book release for our friend that first Friday the 5th of July, with just a little more clean up, but there was also getting the grrrls (Clover and Roofus) to the vet, who you might not have got to meet, but pretty much run our lives; checking in with my Dad regarding his upcoming shoulder surgery and of course preparing for the event of the summer, another McMahon-Hardie wedding (Maya & Joe--woo hoo!!), so I headed over to the Trumbullplex. What! Why go over to the Plex when there was an event that needed planning at our house, for the yardsale of course!

I really wanted to cram in a yardsale before we left for the U.P. wedding. This was going to be a big summer for our community space & the houses on Trumbull Ave. (where Clara and I met). The Trumbullplex is as infamous among the artists and activists of Detroit as the Old Michigan Central Train Depot is to the city at large. As the oldest anarchist housing collective in the country we were officially turning 20! I talked Clara into having the ultimate garage sale over there on Saturday and Sunday to kick off the celebrations and got to pulling out all sorts of crazy, but useful things from the infamous Trumbull theatre, basement, and workroom. We have been trying to get rid of a lot of extra things at our place, so I already had a pile back home to move over there in the truck and lord knows the Trumbull collective has collected a lot of stuff over the past 20 years, so let's just say there was a lot of happy shoppers that 4th of U Lie weekend, and we are a little more free of the burden of stuff. Kameron (our nephew) was on board as well; he gathered up his own “stuff” for the sale and helped out a lot early Saturday morning. Plus, Lou's Mom Maria turned up with a full on BBQ and cupcake setup meanwhile Kam fell for how soft Maria's fur coat was she was selling, insisting that was all he wanted for his birthday. What a fun 20th anniversary anarchist yard sale.

Oh, and the Flamingo's BBQ/Poetry reading for James' Hart III's latest book of poetry, Uncomfortable Clowns, (the day before the yardsale) was awesome! Everyone loved the intimacy of the space, we made all our money back with book sales and a unique community vibe, maybe even a little reminescent of the old days at the Zeigest meets a much smaller version of the wedding party. The book release became our second successful H. Ruff Flamingo event, where Clara played violin as the openner after I welcomed everyone followed by another great poet, Peter Markus, who read some special work for James the 3rd.

Clara played on a new violin that came into her life free! Our friend Paul, who lives in Boston, fixed it up for us as a wedding gift. The violin has an amazing tone and is much better quality than her old one that she's had since middle school. She's now saving for a new bow, which some say effects more than 50% of the sound.

I know it's all a bit confusing, it was a whirlwind weekend, so that's how it comes out on the page I guess. The yard sale wrapped up on Sunday; Monday we cleaned up both events, Dad had a successful surgery on his shoulder, which finally got us to Tuesday morning. With the dogs, Kameron and all our wedding clothes into the new car and off to the U.P. we went, woo hoo!

2.1 ::: Maya & Joe's Wedding / Collapse tour / Violin Exploration Camp / Trumbullplex Slating
by jhon

Maya had asked me to DJ the wedding but I didn't have gear for that, so I brought my records and spent some time while everyone else was running around looking for 2 turntables and a dj mixer, which eventually was found way out in the woods. And that really is too long a story for this brief update, but kinda makes me think I should be a DJ when we move to Marquette someday. The wedding was incredible. They walked down an “aisle” of apple trees with rolling green hills all around on a beautiful day, there was a pig roast, huge stained glass art pieces hanging from trees and buildings  Maya & Joe did a swing dance to “Crazy Little Thing Called Love”, kicking off the after party in the loft of a huge old barn and Clara wore her new San Francisco boutique dress! I spent a lot of time just walking around the grounds and talking about Detroit to a handful of folks and hardly saw Kam as he was off running around with all the other kids.

Kam on the way there. Working on a chapter of his story.
Mom polishing a set of silver for Maya & Joe that she put together from thrift store hunting & gathering
Where we found the DJ mixer...the workshop of our BFFs when we move up there someday.
Rita, Dad, Mom
wedding setting farm/apple orchard 
Kam on the way home, with Clover
The next day we had to get on the road and make the 8 hour drive back with dogs and 9 year old so Kam could start sports camp, Clara could start her violin camp and I could play our first show of tour the next day in Ypsilanti. Since Dad couldn't drive while in recovery, we stopped in Rochester Hills on the way home and I borrowed the van for the bands tour. My punk band, Collapse (Ashleigh, Mikey, Matthew, Anderson and me), toured Pittsburgh, Mont Clair New Jersey, NYC (at the infamous ABC No Rio on the lower east side), Philly and D.C. while Clara taught 3 groups a day in the 4th annual Violin Exploration Camp at the Conner Capuchin Soup Kitchen. 4 new students ages 4-8 from the Rosa Parks Youth Program were brought into Detroit Youth Volume that week under Clara's daily, loving Suzuki method instruction!

Clara & Johnathan
After driving home from D.C. we got the scaffolding and set it up; the day after that I tore into a section of Plex Victorian-style roof badly in need of a new copper valley and as it turned out a lot of rafter repairs. It was a lot more work than I anticipated but it meant something more to me than just taking care of a bad valley and some roof leaks. For me Trumbullplex is an experiment with sharing the joys and hardships of life. Rather than take on a mass of debt that the Capitalist system pretty much demands a group owns the buildings together and all pitch in an amount less expensive than rent and bills even would be, but the trade off is you have to get together and meet to plan how things will happen and issues will be resolved. We have gone so far into the idea that each individual should have access to things that are supposed to make our quality of life better, that the systems of production and management of this single minded way that we have become used to is actually doing the opposite. What I have seen is there are better ways to live and not buy into all the American hype, we dont need so much stuff as much as we need to learn to better communicate and take care that we are not ignoring the fact built into the system are saftey nets that do not heal people but create a permanent life of struggle, but hey why should we make our lives about caring for




The Trumbullplex, the oldest anarchist housing collective and art space in the country, as having its 20th anniversary since 1993, when the collective became a State non-profit and was a community theater and artists apartments. A band called Mischeif Brew who was celebration their 10th year of playing Trumbullplex kicked off the night of the Flyer Art Show, along with Jhon's band, Collapse. Flyers on the wall were only a small part of the vast accumulation, arranged in sections like “Poetry/Art”, “Women's Nights”, “Puppets/Theater”, “Specifically Political”, “Work days”, “Weddings/Funerals”, “Cafes”, “Benefits for Others”... A low-key BBQ for all current and X-plexers followed on Sunday with good food and old friends pouring over hundreds of photos from our personal collections.

2.2 ::: Guernsey Lake / Sand Lakes / Kameron Turns 10
by clara

We decided to make it a priority to take the new kayaks somewhere and got the chance to drive Carolyn and her 2 babies, Finn & Rowan, up to her family cabin on Torch Lake. After spending a night there we drove down the other side of the lake to Traverse City to find a thrift store since Jhon realized he left Clara's bag at home and she had no other clothes to wear...of course it was Sunday so no thrift stores were open and Clara had to accept the nightmare of spending $75 at K-Mart to something other than jeans for kayaking, a bathing suit and warm shirt for camping. Regardless, after searching for our favorite Sand Lakes, we ended up at the beautiful, clear Guernsey Lakes and stayed up late on the shore in sleeping bags watching the Leonid meteor showers (shooting stars!). The next day, we kayaked on the lake with a family of loons! There was a fuzzy brown baby and 2 parents diving down, bringing up food.



After mom and dad moved Maya into the new apartment in Pittsbugh with Joe, they stopped by our place on the way home. We traveled Sand Lakes and met 8 Trumbullplex pals at our favorite lake. We took hikes to find wild turkey feathers and flicker feathers, cooked over and sang around the campfire, swam around the blue-green lake and applied mud body masks from the shore.


Kameron turned 10 in August. There was a party in Nana and Papa's new Great Room—an addition that Papa's son, Chuck, worked very hard on to complete before their Woodward Cruise party. Auntie Sandra's family came too. Kameron has done so many thing this year that he's never done before—a poem he wrote about water was published in a poetry book at Young Authors summer camp at Cranbrook, he tried out and made it onto a travel soccer team, played lacrosse at the Cranbrook sports summer camp, wrote a script and presented himself as Orville Wright in the school wax museum, inadvertently started an after school science experiment club and a lot more.

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Getting the thank you notes in the mail!

Jhons cards he made from postcard collection


Colored envelopes Clara made & the update Jhon wrote